Rape Fantasy Gone Awry

When a friend of mine told me this story earlier this week, I was a bit shellshocked, if not totally upset. However, I was barely surprised that somehow Craigslist was involved.

Some people have fantasies that many others call a bit sick and perverted. many husbands, understandably, would not allow their wives to be raped- let alone fucked- by another man. Other men, however, do allow their wives to sleep with other men (and yes, in fairness, some wives like to see their husbands banging another woman- or even another man...as you can see, this varies case by case...). But this man did not tell his wife that he had a fantasy that many would cringe at. And he used the tool that itself says that it's doing its best to avoid criminal propositions- Craigslist.

As almost everyone knows by now, a 25-year-old man from the Charlotte suburb of Kannapolis arranged for his wife to be raped by another man- all while he watched. The man has been charged with first-degree rape, and is jailed on a $200,000 bond (click on the title for the latest story from WCNC NewsChannel 36). Investigators are looking for the hired perpetrator as they look through computer records.

If the man wanted to watch his wife get banged by another man, why in the hell couldn't he just tell her? If she disagreed, he'd have to respect that. One question I must ask: what if the wife decided to hire a dominatrix- or even better, another person- no matter the sexual orientation- to sexually assault the husband? I know I'm walking a tightrope when I say this, but the point I seek to make is that the husband should have communicated with the wife instead of having this atrocious act committed to her. Now the man faces both criminal court- and likely divorce court as well.

Perhaps he'll find out what the wife went through while he sits in jail.

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